One day a young
man was standing in the middle of the town proclaiming that he had the most
beautiful heart in the whole valley.
A large crowd gathered and they all admired his heart for it was perfect.
There was not a mark or a flaw in it.
Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most beautiful heart they had ever
seen. The young man was very proud and boasted more loudly about his
beautiful heart. Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of the crowd and
said,
"Why your heart is not nearly as beautiful as mine." The crowd and the young
man looked at the old man's heart. It was beating strongly, but full of
scars, it had places where pieces had been removed and other pieces put in,
but they didn't fit quite right and there were several jagged edges.
In fact, in some places there were deep gouges where whole pieces were
missing.
The people stared -- how can he say his heart is more beautiful, they
thought? The young man looked at the old man's heart and saw its state and
laughed. "You must be joking," he said. "Compare your heart with mine, mine
is perfect and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old man, "yours is perfect
looking but I would never trade with you. You see, every scar represents a
person to whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece of my heart and
give it to them, and often they give me a piece of their heart which fits
into the empty place in my heart, but because the pieces aren't exact, I
have some rough edges, which I cherish, because they remind me of the love
we shared. Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart away, and the other
person hasn't returned a piece of his heart to me.
These are the empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance. Although these
gouges are painful, they stay open, reminding me of the love I have for
these people too, and I hope someday they may return and fill the space I
have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running down his cheeks. He walked
up to the old man, reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart, and
ripped a piece out.
He offered it to the old man with trembling hands. The old man took his
offering, placed it in his heart and then took a piece from his old scarred
heart and placed it in the wound in the young man's heart. It fit,
But not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges. The young man looked at
his heart, not perfect anymore but more beautiful than ever, since love from
the old man's heart flowed into his. They embraced and walked away side by
side.